This remark was unnecessary. I know what it is like to have a horrendous relative come live with me (for 8 years). In my case, no sleep, no peace, cops calling, identity theft, you name it.
No good deed goes unpunished. Some of these "poor" relatives behave in such a horrendous manner that no one can tolerate them. The poster tried to be kind and has been punished for it. You have no right to judge.