evict my daughter's boyfriend - Landlord Forum thread

evict my daughter's boyfriend by Kathleen Mansfield (CA) on May 21, 2012 @13:39

My daughter and her boyfriend move into my home about a year ago. My daughter and her boyfriend argue a lot and most of the time I am awaken in the very early hours because of their arguing. The boyfriend moved out before and my husband and I told her that he cannot come back. And she let him back in. My husband and I are stuck with the increasing utility bills and it is putting us into hardship. I was told that I have to give the boyfriend 30 days notice. I can't afford to keep him here. There was no contract done. He has acted like this is his home and he doesn't feel that he has to go by our wishes. He has family but it seems like they don't want him there. When my daughter first dated him they lived at his parents home and I paid for her to stay there. Then all of a sudden my daughter said that they need a place to stay. My daughter verbally told me that I would get $400.00 a month and they would help with utilities. Well they have been here a year and I got $80.00. This has affected my 5 year old granddaughter, with all of the fighting and arguing. Do I have to give the boyfriend 30 days notice.

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Re: evict my daughter's boyfriend by A.T.SF (CA) on May 21, 2012 @15:01	[ Reply ]

This sounds more like a civil affair rather than a Landlord/ Tenant arrangement. Has your daughters boyfriend ever paid you directly for "rent" to stay in the house? It is true that to dismiss him from your house you must give a 30 day notice. However, that can be also accomplished by posting a 3 day Pay or Quit for the agreed $400.00 per month and you can also post a Cure or Quit regarding them creating a nuisance disturbance, but the police should be called to document the hostile environment when they fight. You have to follow up at the county court house for eviction. Understand that these suggestions do not take care of the family issues with your daughter and may displace your granddaughter should CPS gets involved.

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Re: evict my daughter's boyfriend by June (IL) on May 22, 2012 @09:25	[ Reply ]

I have a friend with a similar situation:but the boyfriend ended up abusing the daughter and had to be arrested. they moved his stuff to his parents house and then got served papers for theft (missing items). they have court coming up and can't prove what they took to his parents house. for some reason the daughter still wants to be with him but live rent free and have the parents still support her. now, family is family; but when they start taking advantage it is time to get real and strict. if the daughter wants to live like she is still not responsible enough to support herself have rules: no friends over, no boyfriends staying over night, curfew, etc.' just like she was a teenager. if she breaks the rules make it understood she will not be living there.