Dear xxxx:
Since you have not come and talked to me about your situation, I feel I have no choice but to write you this letter.
First, I want to make clear to you that I love you and I don’t want to be mean or heartless when to you. You may not see it this way but I only want what is best for you and of course for us.
You are living with us now since May 2005 and it was meant to be a temporary solution. We offered you a place to stay so you could regroup, save some money and get a place of your own. We wanted to provide a stepping stone and help to get some of the hurdles out of the way.
Unfortunately, by letting you stay here for so long, we haven’t helped you at all - we have been giving you an easy way out. We have enabled you to live without any personal responsibilities.
You know since March 2005 that we wanted you to move. Since then you had more than enough time to find a place to live. At the beginning of 2007, I told you that you needed to move by the end of January 2007. Not only did you disregard my wishes but you didn’t even talk to me about your plans.
I have spoken with xxxx and decided to extend your stay for one last time until February 15, 2007. On that day I expect you to leave this house and return the house keys. It’s not a pressing matter yet, but you will have to think what you are going to do with your vehicle.
I wish you the best for you future
Love,
